Daughter! Get you an honest Man for a Husband, and keep him honest. No matter whether he is rich, provided he be independent. Regard the Honour and moral Character of the Man more than all other Circumstances. Think of no other Greatness but that of the soul, no other Riches but those of the Heart. An honest, Sensible humane Man, above all the Littlenesses of Vanity, and Extravagances of Imagination, labouring to do good rather than be rich, to be usefull rather than make a show, living in a modest Simplicity clearly within his Means and free from Debts or Obligations, is really the most respectable Man in Society, makes himself and all about him the most happy. John Adams
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In this quote, Anne Bradstreet was saying how important it is to find a husband who is “honorable and sensible”. She encouraged women to be careful about who they marry, as those qualities are the most important. She also said that a good man doesn’t need to be rich, as long as he is independent, and that she would rather have a husband with a good heart than a rich one.

Source: Letters Of John Adams, Addressed To His Wife

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